Some people will spend a thousand dollars to spend a few hours with me, others wouldn’t choose to hang out with me for free. I used to accept whoever ended up in my space, constantly trying to impress and please. I hoped for everyone’s respect and approval and worked to earn it. Today, I recognize I have choice. Today I choose to surround myself with people who adore me and treat me as an equal. They value what I have to say. They openly receive my love. They recognize my strength and don’t tip-toe around me. I do NOT have available space for others who attack me or my work, attempt to create a sense of self-doubt, illicit defensiveness, or communicate with condemnation or dismissiveness. I am not available for this type of energy in ANY type of relationships. Not in romance. Not in family. Not in work. Not in friendship. When I honor myself by protecting my sacred space in this way, I create an effortless atmosphere for creativity and impact. Because I don’t spend a lot of energy fighting, convincing, explaining, earning, and struggling, I have loads more energy to invest in passionately creating and living in my purpose.
There will ALWAYS be people who adore you and people who condemn you. There will be people who would do anything to get a slice of your time and there will be people who couldn’t care less. You could be the juiciest peach (you ARE the juiciest peach!!) and there will still be people who don’t like peaches. Guess what?? YOU DON’T HAVE TO HANG OUT WITH PEOPLE WHO DON’T LIKE PEACHES! Much love my friends, to you and all your juiciness. facebook.com/groups/iamunapologetic