Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
What Are Your Pity Parties Trying to Tell You?
I had a meltdown last night. I often don’t allow myself the permission to break down, because I tell myself I don’t have the right. I...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
Hell YESES Are the Only Way for Me
If I have to convince you to join my program, you’re not a fit for the program. If I have to explain to you why you should spend money on...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 4 min
We Have A Problem With Men's Violence
Ahmad Al Aliwi Alissa killed 10 people on March 22, 2021 at a market in Boulder CO. 21 year old male, no criminal record, motivation...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
The Art of Dehumanization
“Anyone who isn’t a Patriot is a Traitor.” “Anyone who supports Trump is a White Supremacist.” “I refuse to unify with THEM.” We are...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 1 min
Let's Talk About Trust
“I don’t know how to learn to trust again.” I hear this OVER and OVER. Then I hear some version of desperately trying to figure out how...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
You Say You Want A Man Who....
You say you want a man who knows how to treat you well, yet you joke about men being so oblivious and dense they need “training”. You say...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
Stop Shutting It Out
Over the course of recovering from my codependency, I thought I had really mastered the idea of letting go of all expectations. I could...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 1 min
If Only We Can Be....
“He’s an asshole to everyone else but he treats me well because he truly loves me.” I’ve heard this comment one too many times. It’s the...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
It's Time We Take Responsibility
When a woman shows up with a black eye, do you look for a reason to excuse his violence? When a woman is embarrassed about the verbal...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
The Importance of Coaches
I have been as annoyed as the next person at the endless marketing content of women’s business coaches. Sometimes they are pushy....
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 1 min
Toxic Positivity
We have learned to have an intolerance for unpleasant truth. In the era of “positive thinking”, we have conveniently learned to excuse...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
Set the Standard
I talk a lot about unapologetically identifying what you want and setting the standards required to be in your presence. And, I have...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 1 min
Stand Tall & Own Your Boundaries
“You’re such a buzz kill.” These were the words used to describe me, after I told a guest substances were not allowed in my home. These...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
You Are Not FRAGILE.
I refuse to treat you as fragile. I understand you have been through hell. I understand you have been cruelly kicked down and belittled....
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 1 min
When Does It Get Easier?
When do I get to stop having these difficult conversations? When will people stop trying to break into my life, creating chaos? When will...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 3 min
Your Excuses are as Real as You Say They Are
I find it interesting, some people think I have the world and other people wonder how I could possibly be happy living so simply. Some...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
PROMISES Are Not GUARANTEES
“He VOWED to be married FOREVER.” “He CAN’T just walk away. He PROMISED.” “He HAS to change because he PROMISED.” “He HAS to stop...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
Accountability is LOVE
If I say I’m committed to being honest and you catch me lying, DON’T be PATIENT with me. If I say I’m committed to being real and you...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
FORGIVENESS
“Be the bigger person. Forgive.” “Why should I be the one to forgive when I’m the victim?!” “Staying angry is like drinking poison and...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
Condemnation Solves Nothing
All throughout this year, I have been pressured to pick a political side. And I have been called every name in the book when I have...
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