Letting Go

WHAT IF?

It is such a scary thing to burn away EVERYTHING that does not match your 100% FUCK YES’s. Taking that jump and burning down: The...

You Can't Will It To Be True

“He finally got his big wake up call.” “He has to learn his lesson now.” “There is no way he will drink again after this.” “He won’t hurt...

How It's Supposed To Be

Sometimes I forget the eccentric and complicated life I have chosen to walk and am reminded when pieces of my past show up. I have never...

I Am My Own

March 1st, my name legally changed, for the fourth and final time. It changes to something with meaning. It is something I hand picked,...

Boundaries

Often when people start to wake up to the idea of boundary setting, it is overwhelming. What boundaries do I set? Am I really allowed to...

PROMISES Are Not GUARANTEES

“He VOWED to be married FOREVER.” “He CAN’T just walk away. He PROMISED.” “He HAS to change because he PROMISED.” “He HAS to stop...

Saying YES Will Always Have a Cost

Saying YES to courage and freedom will require you to say NO to a thousand safe and cautious opportunities. Saying YES to relationships...

One YES will require 1000 NO's.

You know that thing you really really want? That thing your heart LONGS for? Maybe it’s a relationship defined by mutuality, respect,...

You can't do it ALL. Make your choice.

I used to have the biggest problem letting go of ANYTHING. Relationships Jobs Things Opportunities Commitments Businesses Projects I was...

The Hidden Facade

You don’t comment or like my posts, because it’s too painful. You read and soak up every word of validation, but you’re stuck in your...