Love

We All Need a Little Grace in Order to Grow

It’s become really “cool” and acceptable to self-righteously condemn those that don’t agree with us. It’s never been easier to justify....

YOU Are MAGIC

All my life, I can recall comments made about my breast size. “Your genetics have cursed you with small boobs.” “I don’t know why so many...

The Illusion of Easy Exits

“There’s always a time to easily exit a relationship. It’s during those bad times that define a true power couple.” I read this comment a...

You Say You Want A Man Who....

You say you want a man who knows how to treat you well, yet you joke about men being so oblivious and dense they need “training”. You say...

When You're the Exception

"None of the other women he’s been with could handle him.” “No one has taken the time to love him the way he needs.” “He’s an unruly...

"I Don't Accept No For An Answer"

“I don’t accept no for an answer” I have heard this statement glorified throughout my life. Endless persistence and determination. It’s...

If Only We Can Be....

“He’s an asshole to everyone else but he treats me well because he truly loves me.” I’ve heard this comment one too many times. It’s the...

Toxic Positivity

We have learned to have an intolerance for unpleasant truth. In the era of “positive thinking”, we have conveniently learned to excuse...

How It's Supposed To Be

Sometimes I forget the eccentric and complicated life I have chosen to walk and am reminded when pieces of my past show up. I have never...

Seeking the Truth is a Lonely Journey

The harder you seek the truth, the more alone you will find your path. For the truths you find will be intolerable to many. It will burn...