Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
The Illusion of Easy Exits
“There’s always a time to easily exit a relationship. It’s during those bad times that define a true power couple.” I read this comment a...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
You Say You Want A Man Who....
You say you want a man who knows how to treat you well, yet you joke about men being so oblivious and dense they need “training”. You say...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
You Can't Will It To Be True
“He finally got his big wake up call.” “He has to learn his lesson now.” “There is no way he will drink again after this.” “He won’t hurt...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 1 min
Let's Talk About Loyalty
We traditionally see loyalty as a good thing. It’s one of the most POWERFUL values of the “good girl” identity. “I am GOOD because I am...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
Set the Standard
I talk a lot about unapologetically identifying what you want and setting the standards required to be in your presence. And, I have...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
Relationships Require Settling?
My whole life, I have heard people say “relationships require compromise”, “every relationship requires a degree of settling”, and “you...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 1 min
My Thanks to Divine Kings
Many men find my message threatening. They don’t want their partners following me. They don’t want their partners reading my work. They...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 1 min
Get NAKED
A little over a year ago, I made a decision. I decided I was willing to be true to myself and my calling, no matter the cost. I would be...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 1 min
Our "Politeness" is Killing Us
As women, we have been deeply conditioned to be polite at all costs. A man compliments you? Smile and say “thank you”. A man offers help?...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 1 min
You Aren't a Slot Machine
“I feel guilty I don’t love him back.” “He’s been so nice to me.” “He’s been such a gentleman.” “He’s bought me lots of nice things.”...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
Partnership vs Ownership
“He’s so whipped.” I’ve heard this comment a few times and it always leaves me feeling disturbed. Whenever I have heard this flippant...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 3 min
Love Letter to Yourself
You, Love, deserve the world and more. Every desire. Every heart melting experience. Every passion that lights your soul on fire. Every...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
I'm Not "LUCKY"
As I sat next to my Love as he woke up from surgery, I was struck by all the feels. The hospital was a place I was not a stranger to. I...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 1 min
Those Who LOVE You Will CELEBRATE Your BOUNDARIES
You will be called harsh. You will be called unrealistic. You will be called inconsiderate. You will be called selfish. You will be...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
YOU'RE NOT FAILING
“I can’t believe I’m so broken I’m reaching out to you.” This was a message I received this morning and it broke my heart. It made me sad...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
Honor Your Sovereignty
I witness a lot of women waiting for permission to take action. Educational decisions. Career decisions. Business decisions. Reproductive...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 3 min
Twisting the Truth
Today is the 9 year anniversary of the day I walked into AlAnon. I had many years of learning and mastery ahead of me since that day, and...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
Failing Your MARRIAGE is Better Than Failing YOURSELF
“I can’t FAIL at this marriage.” “I will feel so worthless if my relationship ends.” “A good person does what it takes to make a...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 1 min
What's Standing in the Way of Your High Standards
If I hold high standards for those allowed in my space, that would mean... “I’m being a bitch.” “I’m selfish.” “I’m being high...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 1 min
I Love Me FIRST
I buy myself flowers. Yes, I have a very loving, caring, and generous boyfriend, and I STILL buy myself flowers. ?? “Don’t buy...
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