Neutrality

Tears are Nothing to Apologize for

We have been taught emotion is something to be problem solved. Something to be gotten rid of. Something to “treat”. Something to keep...

We All Need a Little Grace in Order to Grow

It’s become really “cool” and acceptable to self-righteously condemn those that don’t agree with us. It’s never been easier to justify....

The Art of Dehumanization

“Anyone who isn’t a Patriot is a Traitor.” “Anyone who supports Trump is a White Supremacist.” “I refuse to unify with THEM.” We are...

Condemnation Solves Nothing

All throughout this year, I have been pressured to pick a political side. And I have been called every name in the book when I have...

The Illusion of "FOREVER"

“If I’m careful to choose the right partner, I will never have to divorce.” “I’m not settling for anything but THE ONE.” In many ways, we...

Healing Does Not Happen Through HATRED

I watch a LOT of women try to heal from a toxic relationship through hatred. They demonize their previous partners, calling them names,...

Grieving the LIVING

“He was such a jerk! Just leave him in dust and don’t look back!” “Have you seen what he did to you? WHY do you keep going back?” “You...

NO ONE is Exempt From Bad Behavior

Racists are good people. Sexists are good people. Addicts are good people. Abusers are good people. Murders are good people. IF THIS...

CHECK YOURSELF

If you’re loyal to Black Lives Matter, check yourself. If you’re loyal to All Lives Matter, check yourself. If you’re loyal to the police...

ALL People Do Bad Things

The Monsters we fear: The rapists. The child molesters. The addicts and alcoholics. The greedy. The violent abusers. The power...