Self Worth

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Jul 14, 2022
1 min

Tears are Nothing to Apologize for

We have been taught emotion is something to be problem solved. Something to be gotten rid of. Something to “treat”. Something to keep...

We All Need a Little Grace in Order to Grow

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
2 min

We All Need a Little Grace in Order to Grow

It’s become really “cool” and acceptable to self-righteously condemn those that don’t agree with us. It’s never been easier to justify....

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
2 min

Hell YESES Are the Only Way for Me

If I have to convince you to join my program, you’re not a fit for the program. If I have to explain to you why you should spend money on...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
2 min

YOU Are MAGIC

All my life, I can recall comments made about my breast size. “Your genetics have cursed you with small boobs.” “I don’t know why so many...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
2 min

He Deserves More Than Your Pity

Pity Love… Some of you are out there thinking… “I can’t leave because he won’t know what to do without me” “I don’t know what he would do...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
2 min

STOP With The Pretend Collaboration

I am all about women’s empowerment. I am all about their success. I am all about them CRUSHING their financial goals and being the BOSS...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
4 min

We Have A Problem With Men's Violence

Ahmad Al Aliwi Alissa killed 10 people on March 22, 2021 at a market in Boulder CO. 21 year old male, no criminal record, motivation...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
1 min

The Goddess Creed

I hereby commit to my inner Warrior Goddess. I commit to honor myself, knowing this honors everyone. I will practice loyalty to myself,...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
1 min

If Only We Can Be....

“He’s an asshole to everyone else but he treats me well because he truly loves me.” I’ve heard this comment one too many times. It’s the...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
2 min

The Importance of Coaches

I have been as annoyed as the next person at the endless marketing content of women’s business coaches. Sometimes they are pushy....

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
1 min

Toxic Positivity

We have learned to have an intolerance for unpleasant truth. In the era of “positive thinking”, we have conveniently learned to excuse...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
1 min

I Am My Own

March 1st, my name legally changed, for the fourth and final time. It changes to something with meaning. It is something I hand picked,...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
2 min

Set the Standard

I talk a lot about unapologetically identifying what you want and setting the standards required to be in your presence. And, I have...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
1 min

Self Worth, Self Love and Your Body

“Get in shape to raise your self worth!” “Have this plastic surgery to finally love your body!” “Don’t you want to give yourself the gift...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
2 min

You Were Created for MORE

You were created for more than having a relationship. Yet, many of us women live as if it is our sole objective. Like we are incomplete...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
1 min

Settling is Always Based in Fear

“You can’t always get what you want.” “You have to be realistic.” “You just have to take what you can get.” “Better to play it safe.”...

We All Struggle With Boundaries Sometimes

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
2 min

We All Struggle With Boundaries Sometimes

You might be surprised to hear I still struggle with setting boundaries. Sometimes, desperately so. Yes, the same Jillian Aurora who’s...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
2 min

Relationships Require Settling?

My whole life, I have heard people say “relationships require compromise”, “every relationship requires a degree of settling”, and “you...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
1 min

Stand Tall & Own Your Boundaries

“You’re such a buzz kill.” These were the words used to describe me, after I told a guest substances were not allowed in my home. These...

My Resentment Is One of My Most Profound Gifts

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
1 min

My Resentment Is One of My Most Profound Gifts

My resentment is one of my most profound gifts. Yep. I didn’t mistype that. My resentment shows me where I am compromising my standards...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

How to spot a predator

Every time I hear of a good hearted individual who has been exploited, taken advantage of, and preyed upon, I feel a burning and...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

He Deserves More Than Your Pity

Pity Love… Some of you are out there thinking… “I can’t leave because he won’t know what to do without me” “I don’t know what he would do...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

We Have A Problem With Men's Violence

Ahmad Al Aliwi Alissa killed 10 people on March 22, 2021 at a market in Boulder CO. 21 year old male, no criminal record, motivation...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

The Art of Dehumanization

“Anyone who isn’t a Patriot is a Traitor.” “Anyone who supports Trump is a White Supremacist.” “I refuse to unify with THEM.” We are...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

The Illusion of Easy Exits

“There’s always a time to easily exit a relationship. It’s during those bad times that define a true power couple.” I read this comment a...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

Let's Talk About Trust

“I don’t know how to learn to trust again.” I hear this OVER and OVER. Then I hear some version of desperately trying to figure out how...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

You Say You Want A Man Who....

You say you want a man who knows how to treat you well, yet you joke about men being so oblivious and dense they need “training”. You say...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

When You're the Exception

"None of the other women he’s been with could handle him.” “No one has taken the time to love him the way he needs.” “He’s an unruly...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

It's Time We Take Responsibility

When a woman shows up with a black eye, do you look for a reason to excuse his violence? When a woman is embarrassed about the verbal...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

We Fight For Every Woman

My abuser could smell a powerful woman from a mile away. He knew my exposure to her intense, free spirited independence might make me...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

Let's Talk About Loyalty

We traditionally see loyalty as a good thing. It’s one of the most POWERFUL values of the “good girl” identity. “I am GOOD because I am...