Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 3 min
If I Can Recover, You Can Too.
This last week, I passed my 10 year anniversary in the AlAnon program. This is a testament to the woman who walked through those doors....
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
He Deserves More Than Your Pity
Pity Love… Some of you are out there thinking… “I can’t leave because he won’t know what to do without me” “I don’t know what he would do...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
The Illusion of Easy Exits
“There’s always a time to easily exit a relationship. It’s during those bad times that define a true power couple.” I read this comment a...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 1 min
Let's Talk About Trust
“I don’t know how to learn to trust again.” I hear this OVER and OVER. Then I hear some version of desperately trying to figure out how...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
You Say You Want A Man Who....
You say you want a man who knows how to treat you well, yet you joke about men being so oblivious and dense they need “training”. You say...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
WHAT IF?
It is such a scary thing to burn away EVERYTHING that does not match your 100% FUCK YES’s. Taking that jump and burning down: The...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
Stop Shutting It Out
Over the course of recovering from my codependency, I thought I had really mastered the idea of letting go of all expectations. I could...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
You Can't Will It To Be True
“He finally got his big wake up call.” “He has to learn his lesson now.” “There is no way he will drink again after this.” “He won’t hurt...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
The Importance of Coaches
I have been as annoyed as the next person at the endless marketing content of women’s business coaches. Sometimes they are pushy....
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
We Fight For Every Woman
My abuser could smell a powerful woman from a mile away. He knew my exposure to her intense, free spirited independence might make me...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 1 min
Let's Talk About Loyalty
We traditionally see loyalty as a good thing. It’s one of the most POWERFUL values of the “good girl” identity. “I am GOOD because I am...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
Set the Standard
I talk a lot about unapologetically identifying what you want and setting the standards required to be in your presence. And, I have...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
Love Shouldn't Be Transactional
There are many reasons I have heard women use to justify their own mistreatment. There were many ways I myself justified relationships...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
You Were Created for MORE
You were created for more than having a relationship. Yet, many of us women live as if it is our sole objective. Like we are incomplete...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 1 min
Settling is Always Based in Fear
“You can’t always get what you want.” “You have to be realistic.” “You just have to take what you can get.” “Better to play it safe.”...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
We All Struggle With Boundaries Sometimes
You might be surprised to hear I still struggle with setting boundaries. Sometimes, desperately so. Yes, the same Jillian Aurora who’s...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
Relationships Require Settling?
My whole life, I have heard people say “relationships require compromise”, “every relationship requires a degree of settling”, and “you...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 1 min
My Resentment Is One of My Most Profound Gifts
My resentment is one of my most profound gifts. Yep. I didn’t mistype that. My resentment shows me where I am compromising my standards...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
Your Relationships Do Not Determine Your Worth
“She’s been married three times.” “She could’ve tried more to save the marriage.” “She needs to learn how to choose better men.” “If she...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 14, 2022
- 2 min
Let's Talk About Manifestation
“If I just ‘manifest better’ my relationship will improve.” “People around me are abusive because they are a reflection of my inner...
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