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Jul 14, 2022
1 min

Tears are Nothing to Apologize for

We have been taught emotion is something to be problem solved. Something to be gotten rid of. Something to “treat”. Something to keep...

Your Relationships Do Not Determine Your Worth

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
2 min

Your Relationships Do Not Determine Your Worth

“She’s been married three times.” “She could’ve tried more to save the marriage.” “She needs to learn how to choose better men.” “If she...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
2 min

Let's Talk About Manifestation

“If I just ‘manifest better’ my relationship will improve.” “People around me are abusive because they are a reflection of my inner...

You get to set whatever the fuck BOUNDARIES you want.

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
3 min

You get to set whatever the fuck BOUNDARIES you want.

“I don’t drink.” It amazes me the amount of discomfort these words cause. Most of the time, I simply forget drinking is a normal part of...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
2 min

Reclaim Your Authority

“My husband won’t let me wear that.” “My partner won’t let me cut my hair.” “My spouse won’t let me compete in a fitness competition.”...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
2 min

Stop With The Bullshit EXCUSES

I hear women say all the time that they do not have money to invest in a coach, course, retreat, intensive, class, etc. I watch these...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
1 min

Freedom

What’s your freedom going to cost you? It may cost you your fancy house. It may cost you your elaborate vacations. It may cost you your...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
2 min

Honor Your Sovereignty

I witness a lot of women waiting for permission to take action. Educational decisions. Career decisions. Business decisions. Reproductive...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
2 min

You Can Do it However the Fuck You Want

Sometimes, coaches I have hired have cost far more than the money I have paid them. Everyone will have an opinion about how you live your...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
2 min

It's Time To Master HAVING Your Dreams

Sometimes, life seems far too easy and I experience the old guilt programming. The programming that says I have to WAIT until everyone...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
1 min

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU

"Am I overreacting?” “Am I being too sensitive?” “Am I just crazy?” “Maybe I am just paranoid.” “I just know there is something wrong...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
2 min

You Free OTHERS When You Free YOURSELF

“How can I have money and success and peace, when so many I love are suffering?” Do you know, this feeling of guilt ALONE has sabotaged...

You Will Get EXACTLY What You Are Willing to Settle For

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
1 min

You Will Get EXACTLY What You Are Willing to Settle For

Old programming tells me I shouldn’t be demanding. I shouldn’t ask too much. I shouldn’t make waves or cause inconvenience. That it is...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
2 min

FREE work is NOT Free

“If you really loved people, you would give away your work for free.” “Don’t you care about people who are unfortunate and don’t have...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
1 min

"Just a little later" is a LIE

“Someday I’ll have time.” “I just have to wait until he gets better.” “His recovery is just around the corner. I can feel it.” “I KNOW...

It's not about the MONEY. It's about the DESIRE.

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
1 min

It's not about the MONEY. It's about the DESIRE.

I have worked with clients from every imaginable career path. Nurses. Yoga instructors. Bankers. Realtors. Dishwashers. Doctors....

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
2 min

Your DESIRES will set you FREE

Over and over, I come across women who tell me my services are too expensive. They tell me, “maybe later.” “It’s just not the right time.”...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
2 min

The RULES Won't Keep You Safe

When I left my marriage, I pondered the idea of how to make sure this NEVER HAPPENED AGAIN. How to stay safe. How to ensure a lasting...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
2 min

All The Ways We BETRAY Ourselves

I used to have a habit of not really asking that much. Not being too inconvenient. Not being too demanding. Not ever needing that much....

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
2 min

RESENTMENT isn't THE ENEMY.

The gift that doesn’t really feel like a gift… The gift I have ignored, suppressed, and shoved away from me. The gift I have many times...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

How to spot a predator

Every time I hear of a good hearted individual who has been exploited, taken advantage of, and preyed upon, I feel a burning and...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

He Deserves More Than Your Pity

Pity Love… Some of you are out there thinking… “I can’t leave because he won’t know what to do without me” “I don’t know what he would do...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

We Have A Problem With Men's Violence

Ahmad Al Aliwi Alissa killed 10 people on March 22, 2021 at a market in Boulder CO. 21 year old male, no criminal record, motivation...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

The Art of Dehumanization

“Anyone who isn’t a Patriot is a Traitor.” “Anyone who supports Trump is a White Supremacist.” “I refuse to unify with THEM.” We are...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

The Illusion of Easy Exits

“There’s always a time to easily exit a relationship. It’s during those bad times that define a true power couple.” I read this comment a...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

Let's Talk About Trust

“I don’t know how to learn to trust again.” I hear this OVER and OVER. Then I hear some version of desperately trying to figure out how...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

You Say You Want A Man Who....

You say you want a man who knows how to treat you well, yet you joke about men being so oblivious and dense they need “training”. You say...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

When You're the Exception

"None of the other women he’s been with could handle him.” “No one has taken the time to love him the way he needs.” “He’s an unruly...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

It's Time We Take Responsibility

When a woman shows up with a black eye, do you look for a reason to excuse his violence? When a woman is embarrassed about the verbal...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

We Fight For Every Woman

My abuser could smell a powerful woman from a mile away. He knew my exposure to her intense, free spirited independence might make me...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

Let's Talk About Loyalty

We traditionally see loyalty as a good thing. It’s one of the most POWERFUL values of the “good girl” identity. “I am GOOD because I am...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

Love Shouldn't Be Transactional

There are many reasons I have heard women use to justify their own mistreatment. There were many ways I myself justified relationships...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

Boundaries

Often when people start to wake up to the idea of boundary setting, it is overwhelming. What boundaries do I set? Am I really allowed to...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

You Were Created for MORE

You were created for more than having a relationship. Yet, many of us women live as if it is our sole objective. Like we are incomplete...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

Settling is Always Based in Fear

“You can’t always get what you want.” “You have to be realistic.” “You just have to take what you can get.” “Better to play it safe.”...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

Relationships Require Settling?

My whole life, I have heard people say “relationships require compromise”, “every relationship requires a degree of settling”, and “you...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

Stand Tall & Own Your Boundaries

“You’re such a buzz kill.” These were the words used to describe me, after I told a guest substances were not allowed in my home. These...

My Resentment Is One of My Most Profound Gifts