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Jul 14, 2022
1 min

Tears are Nothing to Apologize for

We have been taught emotion is something to be problem solved. Something to be gotten rid of. Something to “treat”. Something to keep...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
2 min

Hell YESES Are the Only Way for Me

If I have to convince you to join my program, you’re not a fit for the program. If I have to explain to you why you should spend money on...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
2 min

YOU Are MAGIC

All my life, I can recall comments made about my breast size. “Your genetics have cursed you with small boobs.” “I don’t know why so many...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
2 min

STOP With The Pretend Collaboration

I am all about women’s empowerment. I am all about their success. I am all about them CRUSHING their financial goals and being the BOSS...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
2 min

The Illusion of Easy Exits

“There’s always a time to easily exit a relationship. It’s during those bad times that define a true power couple.” I read this comment a...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
1 min

Self Worth, Self Love and Your Body

“Get in shape to raise your self worth!” “Have this plastic surgery to finally love your body!” “Don’t you want to give yourself the gift...

Your Excuses are as Real as You Say They Are

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
3 min

Your Excuses are as Real as You Say They Are

I find it interesting, some people think I have the world and other people wonder how I could possibly be happy living so simply. Some...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
1 min

Get NAKED

A little over a year ago, I made a decision. I decided I was willing to be true to myself and my calling, no matter the cost. I would be...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
2 min

Are You a Caregiver, Or a Partner?

“You take such good care of him.” “I don’t know what he would do without you.” “I’m so glad you’re in his life to keep him straightened...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
3 min

Know the Red Flag Predictions

Many years of my life, I thought domestic violence was black and white. It was easy to spot. I knew I’d never be a victim, because I...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
1 min

What if you aren't broken?

“Get in shape to raise your self worth!” “Have this plastic surgery to finally love your body!” “Don’t you want to give yourself the gift...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
1 min

EMBRACE your RESENTMENT

“How do I stop feeling mad at my partner for lying to me?” “How do I stop feeling resentful when my partner chooses a substance over me?”...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
1 min

The making of an Unapologetic Woman

How I, Jillian Aurora - an average woman - became a Goddess. I walked through the fires and the darkness. I braved lonely, confusing...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
2 min

Celebrate Those Who Are REPULSED By You

The other day, I informed someone my home was an alcohol free space and that he was not welcome to bring his beer inside. For a moment,...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
2 min

What If It's My Fault?

“But what about my part?” “It takes two to create a bad marriage.” “I haven’t always been the perfect partner.” I hear these words often,...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
1 min

You Aren't a Slot Machine

“I feel guilty I don’t love him back.” “He’s been so nice to me.” “He’s been such a gentleman.” “He’s bought me lots of nice things.”...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
2 min

Stop With The Bullshit EXCUSES

I hear women say all the time that they do not have money to invest in a coach, course, retreat, intensive, class, etc. I watch these...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
2 min

But... MONEY

“You’ll never travel without me.” “You’ll never be able to get nice things without me.” “You like this home? You’ll never live in a place...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
2 min

Nobody Knew

In the past, I have been an excellent secret keeper. I could contain the worst news. I could carry the deepest pain. I could cover up the...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022
3 min

Love Letter to Yourself

You, Love, deserve the world and more. Every desire. Every heart melting experience. Every passion that lights your soul on fire. Every...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

How to spot a predator

Every time I hear of a good hearted individual who has been exploited, taken advantage of, and preyed upon, I feel a burning and...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

He Deserves More Than Your Pity

Pity Love… Some of you are out there thinking… “I can’t leave because he won’t know what to do without me” “I don’t know what he would do...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

We Have A Problem With Men's Violence

Ahmad Al Aliwi Alissa killed 10 people on March 22, 2021 at a market in Boulder CO. 21 year old male, no criminal record, motivation...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

The Art of Dehumanization

“Anyone who isn’t a Patriot is a Traitor.” “Anyone who supports Trump is a White Supremacist.” “I refuse to unify with THEM.” We are...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

The Illusion of Easy Exits

“There’s always a time to easily exit a relationship. It’s during those bad times that define a true power couple.” I read this comment a...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

Let's Talk About Trust

“I don’t know how to learn to trust again.” I hear this OVER and OVER. Then I hear some version of desperately trying to figure out how...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

You Say You Want A Man Who....

You say you want a man who knows how to treat you well, yet you joke about men being so oblivious and dense they need “training”. You say...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

When You're the Exception

"None of the other women he’s been with could handle him.” “No one has taken the time to love him the way he needs.” “He’s an unruly...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

It's Time We Take Responsibility

When a woman shows up with a black eye, do you look for a reason to excuse his violence? When a woman is embarrassed about the verbal...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

We Fight For Every Woman

My abuser could smell a powerful woman from a mile away. He knew my exposure to her intense, free spirited independence might make me...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

Let's Talk About Loyalty

We traditionally see loyalty as a good thing. It’s one of the most POWERFUL values of the “good girl” identity. “I am GOOD because I am...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

Love Shouldn't Be Transactional

There are many reasons I have heard women use to justify their own mistreatment. There were many ways I myself justified relationships...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

Boundaries

Often when people start to wake up to the idea of boundary setting, it is overwhelming. What boundaries do I set? Am I really allowed to...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

You Were Created for MORE

You were created for more than having a relationship. Yet, many of us women live as if it is our sole objective. Like we are incomplete...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

Settling is Always Based in Fear

“You can’t always get what you want.” “You have to be realistic.” “You just have to take what you can get.” “Better to play it safe.”...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

Relationships Require Settling?

My whole life, I have heard people say “relationships require compromise”, “every relationship requires a degree of settling”, and “you...

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022

Stand Tall & Own Your Boundaries

“You’re such a buzz kill.” These were the words used to describe me, after I told a guest substances were not allowed in my home. These...

My Resentment Is One of My Most Profound Gifts

Jillian Aurora

Jul 14, 2022